Thomas J. Hoey

Thomas Joseph Hoey

November 10, 1970 – November 5, 2026

Thomas Joseph Hoey, of Lockport, Illinois, passed away on November 5, 2026. Raised in Melrose Park, Thomas was a one-of-a-kind person whose goofy personality, high-spirited nature, and loving heart left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know him. He was the kind of person who could strike up a conversation with just about anyone. His outgoing personality, sense of humor, and ability to make people feel welcome made him unforgettable. Thomas had a passion for music, especially playing the drums with his band, "Whata Bout Bob." Music was something he truly loved, and being part of his band brought him joy and an opportunity to share his spirited personality with others.

He was a devoted longtime partner to Shelley Malik and a loving stepfather to Samantha Malik (Nicholas Carpenter). He was also a proud Grandfather to Cameron Carpenter. His love for his family was evident in the way he showed up for the people he cared about, always willing to lend a hand, offer support, or do whatever he could to help. 

Thomas is survived by his longtime partner, Shelley Malik; stepdaughter, Samantha Malik; grandchild, Cameron Carpenter; siblings, Michael Hoey (Shelley Hoey) and Laura Bogart (Neal Bogart); Brother-in-law, Guy Romano; Uncle, Joseph Carlino Jr., and his nieces and nephews, Natalie Romano, Samantha Hoey, Sophia Hoey, Jackson Hoey, Amelia Hoey, Alexis Hoey, Emily Bogart, Kaely Bogart, and Elia Bogart. He is also survived by many cousins and friends. 

He was preceded in death by his mother, Mary Jane Hoey; father, James Hoey; brother, Jimmy Hoey; and his sister, JoEllyn Romano. 

Thomas will be remembered for his laughter, his goofy ways, his love of music, and the enormous heart he carried. He was someone who could brighten a room, and make a friend out of a stranger. To those who knew him as family, he was so much more than a title. He was a constant source of love, laughter, and comfort. His presence will be deeply missed, but the memories he created, the music he played, and the love he gave will live on in the hearts of those he leaves behind. He may be gone from our sight, but he will never be gone from our hearts.

Cremation Rites have been respectfully addressed.

Memorial gathering celebrating Thomas’s life will be held in the O’Neil Funeral Home Chapel 1105 E. 9th St. Lockport, IL 60441 on Saturday, November 14, 2026, from 3:00pm until time of prayers at 6:00pm.